The best friend you will have in your life is your soul. It always has your best interest and knows exactly what usable and effective advice to give you. It’s like the best custom-made friend, co-worker, coach, parent, and spouse you will have. The soul knows you better than anyone else because it is you. It is your bigger you. Some call it your higher self.

Like any other relationship, the bond between the two of you grows stronger over time. When you align with your soul. Your soul naturally becomes the leading part in your life. This part holds all the wisdom and clarity to help you become the leader that you want to be.




Your Soul vs. your Persona

Let me start by telling you that there is no actual distinction between your soul and you as the person that is reading this article. You two are the exact same being. See yourself as a petal of the flower that is your soul. Your soul is your energetic part that is fully immersed in the grid of the universe. It is infinite in nature. Your persona is the part of your soul that travels within a body on earth. Of Course, Your body will eventually die, because it’s finite in nature. This means a part of you travels in an infinite realm (the universe) and a part of you travels in a finite realm (earth).

The difference between earth and the universe

Although parts of you are traveling in different realms, you are still a whole soul. So you have access to both parts. The infinite part knows this, but the part that travels on earth has forgotten that. This part is governed by the laws and energies that rule the earth. People on earth are lead by their ego and are in a world of polarities. There is light and dark, good and bad, right and wrong, etc. The universe is more ruled by love and light. There is no sense of polarities. There are only different perspectives from which you can look at things. These perspectives are all equal. So there is no judgment as to whether somethings right or wrong. 

Soul Alliance to know your essence


The essence of the soul

Because the soul is also governed by the laws of the universe, it also has no sense of polarities. The essence of the soul is love and light and therefore the essence of the persona is also love and light. As I already mentioned, the two parts are exactly the same. The persona (the smaller part) has forgotten that it is part of a bigger soul, but it can know this again. The bigger part tries actively to awaken the smaller part again. So the person can know again that it is in essence love and light. This means that everybody on this earth is capable of knowing this again. 

Soulful leadership means that you radiate love

The benefits of soul alliance

Awakening to this knowing is truly an amazing feeling and is also highly beneficial. It means that a bigger part of you is not subdued to the laws and energies that govern the earth. Your bigger part isn’t lead by ego. It is without judgment and doesn’t feel the need to adapt itself to feel accepted. This also means you don’t feel the need to change or judge others. Your soul has a much broader scope on life and is able to pick out the best ways for you to enjoy the earth plane. Whatever your desires are, your soul is capable of guiding you there. Being a leader who is aligned to their bigger part instantly has a broader scope on life. The more you align with your soul, the more you can make use of this broader scope.

The mission of the soul

To my experience, actively letting the soul guide you through your life as a human being is exactly the journey of the soul. The soul chose to immerse itself on the earth plane to have a human experience. It wanted to expose itself to the earth’s dimension and the polarities in it. There are different explanations about why the soul chose to do this. I feel that every soul has its unique mission and reason for doing this. The more you align with your soul, the more you will experience what its essential mission is. You will be able to lead with a deep sense of meaning and purpose. 


Actively choosing Soul Alliance

The more you align with your soul, the more you will know yourself. The more you know yourself, the more you can lead with authenticity. Creating an alliance with your soul means you will gain clarity about who you are and where you want to go. It means you can set clear boundaries and express them without hesitation. Because your soul guides you and has no notion of time, space, or ego it can help you move through life much more freely and easier. It also knows the shortest and the most fun way to get you where you want to be. It also means you can connect with others on a deeper soul level. 

Ýou can actively choose whether you want to work in tandem with your soul. This choice alone will  open you up to whole other level of living.  

You can start by acknowledging the existence of your soul and invite it in. 

Reaching your full potential by Soul Alliance

As I have mentioned, your soul had a certain mission to partly incarnate into the realm of the earth. When you connect to your soul, you instantly have access to your full potential. Your full potential is your soul. We all have moments in our life when we feel we are wearing a mask. At times we feel that we could do so much more and be so much more, if only… Sometimes we just want to be ourselves. All these feelings stem from one thing, that we have forgotten who we actually are. We are love and light. We possess so much wisdom and strength to fulfill all our wishes in an authentic way. We just need to find that access point to that forgotten wisdom. The greatest thing is that this access point is all around you, because it’s your soul.  

Make your Soul your Ally

Aligning with your soul is a process. I believe the process continues throughout your life. You will learn more about yourself everytime you align more with your soul. Become friends with your soul because it will take you places that you can’t even imagine in your wildest dreams. It will teach you that you are at the exact right place at every moment in your life. (learn more about the soul support system) You can let go of the need to please and to chase your goals. Your soul will take you by the hand and show the world from its perspective. It will help you to balance your inner and outer world, so that it can both be a representation of who you truly are. If you want to read more about what elements are important within this process, please read my other blog post about soul alignment. For now I just give you a few quick tips.

– Go in meditation and visualize your soul as a being behind you. As if you can feel the support the soul gives you.

– Visualize yourself at a favorite spot and invite the soul over. 

– You can visualize your soul as a being and start a conversation with it. Tell it what’s on your heart at that moment. It doesn’t matter if you are mad at your soul. It holds no judgment towards nor will it ever. 

make your soul your ally

Want to align with your soul in a profound and lasting way?
Let me assist you. My gift is that I see and feel where people are not in alignment with their soul. 
I teach them how come into alignment again and
I teach you can use your challenges
as a gateway to get more in alignment.  

soul coach for soulful leadership

Hi, my name is Shafelly Snijders.
I am a soul alignment coach for leaders. 
My soul mission is to help you to align with your soul. I teach soul alignment and inner work to help you see that you are a magnificent, divine and wonderful soul by default and that you are worthy of being loved and treasured. This should also be reflected in your leadership. 

I am a highly sensitive person that can tune into your soul’s presence. I can tell you how your soul is inviting you to align more and how it can help you to reach your full potential.

You are always aligned to your soul, you just have to become aware of it.